Wow. I read through all these posts last night and I feel like you all know exactly what I'm going through. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now, and recently, say in the past month, the sex has decreased substantially. We used to have sex at least once a day, now I'm lucky if we do it on the weekends. I am 19...ONLY 19. This is not supposed to be happening. I know sex is not everything, but it is a large part of a relationship having that sexual attraction. I try talking to him, and he doesn't know what's wrong. I cry myself to sleep every night wondering what I did wrong. I stand in front of the mirror naked wondering what he doesn't like anymore. I admit I put on 5 lbs in the last year, but a lot of people say I look better this way and most of the time i agree! But i am not so sure anymore. What could POSSIBLY be wrong with a 20 year old guy, who is supposed to be at his sexual peak?? At this point, i am almost sure it is me. I don't want to bother him about it anymore because I still love him and want him, but my self esteem is at the lowest it has EVER been. I need to figure out if all this is worth it, because if he doesn't want me anymore there are plenty of guys out there who do...im in COLLEGE. ughhhhh help me!
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Wow. I read through all these posts last night and I feel like you all know exactly what I'm going through. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now, and recently, say in the past month, the sex has decreased substantially. We used to have sex at least once a day, now I'm lucky if we do it on the weekends. I am 19...ONLY 19. This is not supposed to be happening. I know sex is not everything, but it is a large part of a relationship having that sexual attraction. I try talking to him, and he doesn't know what's wrong. I cry myself to sleep every night wondering what I did wrong. I stand in front of the mirror naked wondering what he doesn't like anymore. I admit I put on 5 lbs in the last year, but a lot of people say I look better this way and most of the time i agree! But i am not so sure anymore. What could POSSIBLY be wrong with a 20 year old guy, who is supposed to be at his sexual peak?? At this point, i am almost sure it is me. I don't want to bother him about it anymore because I still love him and want him, but my self esteem is at the lowest it has EVER been. I need to figure out if all this is worth it, because if he doesn't want me anymore there are plenty of guys out there who do...im in COLLEGE. ughhhhh help me!
September 29, 2010 - 7:13amThis Comment
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