Hi Anonymous,
Thanks for your comment. Seven years and platonic? Why are you together? Financial convenience? Force of habit?
If I may be so bold, what you have there is a roommate, not a boyfriend. No doubt you have needs, like the need to be in a real relationship with a man. Since you already aren't sharing a bed with your friend/roommate, it may make things easier to make it official, and decide to "try on" some other potential mates.
I'm sorry you're having to go through this. I know after seven years, it can be hard to know when to say "when." It can be hard to turn your life in a different direction, but consider that it also can be liberating. Give yourself time, and learn what it is you truly are looking for in a relationship, get to know yourself before diving in with the next potential sofa sleeper. It no doubt will be an adventure, so try to be positive, and enjoy this time, relish in it if you can.
In the meantime, here is more information about fibroids for you in case you are curious to know more: Uterine Fibroids
Good luck and let us know how you're doing.
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Hi Anonymous,
November 2, 2010 - 11:41amThanks for your comment. Seven years and platonic? Why are you together? Financial convenience? Force of habit?
If I may be so bold, what you have there is a roommate, not a boyfriend. No doubt you have needs, like the need to be in a real relationship with a man. Since you already aren't sharing a bed with your friend/roommate, it may make things easier to make it official, and decide to "try on" some other potential mates.
I'm sorry you're having to go through this. I know after seven years, it can be hard to know when to say "when." It can be hard to turn your life in a different direction, but consider that it also can be liberating. Give yourself time, and learn what it is you truly are looking for in a relationship, get to know yourself before diving in with the next potential sofa sleeper. It no doubt will be an adventure, so try to be positive, and enjoy this time, relish in it if you can.
In the meantime, here is more information about fibroids for you in case you are curious to know more:
Uterine Fibroids
Good luck and let us know how you're doing.
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