I have been with a guy for a little over two years now. I am 24 years old with a two year old daughter and he is 28. We started dating when i was pregnant with my daughter, so no its not his kid. But after i had my daughter we had all kinds of sex. But it started to decrease more and more. It has now been over a year since we last had sex or him even touching me. I keep thinking to myself it's because i have a kid right? i dont know. I has sat him down and talked with him about this sex fustration that i am having and he tells me all kinds of excuses. The excuses are different every time i ask him about it to. I have gotten " oh it's because we dont get along" , or i dont like the way you live( whatever that means) or " your not on birth control. I have gotten onto birth control a few times now because he told me that he would start having sex with me again if i had gotten myself on birth control. Once i do and it would be into 3 months of being on it, and i would bring it up to him again and he would get mad and say im preasuring him and he doesnt like it. So it would be months of being on birth control and he still wouldnt have sex with me, so then i give up and stop taking it. I dont know exactly what is going on with him. I love him very much and want to be with him, but the sex starvation that i been going through makes me want to look else where and forget about him. What should i do?
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I have been with a guy for a little over two years now. I am 24 years old with a two year old daughter and he is 28. We started dating when i was pregnant with my daughter, so no its not his kid. But after i had my daughter we had all kinds of sex. But it started to decrease more and more. It has now been over a year since we last had sex or him even touching me. I keep thinking to myself it's because i have a kid right? i dont know. I has sat him down and talked with him about this sex fustration that i am having and he tells me all kinds of excuses. The excuses are different every time i ask him about it to. I have gotten " oh it's because we dont get along" , or i dont like the way you live( whatever that means) or " your not on birth control. I have gotten onto birth control a few times now because he told me that he would start having sex with me again if i had gotten myself on birth control. Once i do and it would be into 3 months of being on it, and i would bring it up to him again and he would get mad and say im preasuring him and he doesnt like it. So it would be months of being on birth control and he still wouldnt have sex with me, so then i give up and stop taking it. I dont know exactly what is going on with him. I love him very much and want to be with him, but the sex starvation that i been going through makes me want to look else where and forget about him. What should i do?
November 6, 2010 - 9:36amThis Comment
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