As an update. I recently was on his computer, found out he's been having an online relationship with 2 other girls. When I confronted him about them, he said they didn't mean anything. That he was just trying to get money back from the one. That the other just had low self esteem and he was trying to make her feel better. He's agreed to cut it off with both of them, but yet they keep texting him. He got mad at me for looking through his computer, but I'd been asking him for a while about the one that would text him every night for hours at a time and all he would say is it was a friend. He wouldn't tell me anything. We've been discussing this issue for the past 4 days. I keep asking him why he hides stuff, he says he doesn't mean to, and doesn't know why he does this sort of thing. I told him he needs to decide where his priorities lie. If he wants to be with me or if he wants to do all this online stuff with these other girls. The last 3 months that we hadn't had sex, he was online with this girl every night telling her how he wanted to be with her, to hold her, to have sex with her. I kinda blame her to tho, she knew he had a girlfriend yet still kept it up. Don't get me wrong, I'm pissed at him over this. I really love him, and told him I'd give him one last chance. But only on the condition that he's more open and stops hiding stuff. Next time, he's out the door.
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As an update. I recently was on his computer, found out he's been having an online relationship with 2 other girls. When I confronted him about them, he said they didn't mean anything. That he was just trying to get money back from the one. That the other just had low self esteem and he was trying to make her feel better. He's agreed to cut it off with both of them, but yet they keep texting him. He got mad at me for looking through his computer, but I'd been asking him for a while about the one that would text him every night for hours at a time and all he would say is it was a friend. He wouldn't tell me anything. We've been discussing this issue for the past 4 days. I keep asking him why he hides stuff, he says he doesn't mean to, and doesn't know why he does this sort of thing. I told him he needs to decide where his priorities lie. If he wants to be with me or if he wants to do all this online stuff with these other girls. The last 3 months that we hadn't had sex, he was online with this girl every night telling her how he wanted to be with her, to hold her, to have sex with her. I kinda blame her to tho, she knew he had a girlfriend yet still kept it up. Don't get me wrong, I'm pissed at him over this. I really love him, and told him I'd give him one last chance. But only on the condition that he's more open and stops hiding stuff. Next time, he's out the door.
December 10, 2010 - 3:15pmThis Comment
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