That is so weird, i have the same problem. Hopefully somebody got some thoughts.....
Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost two years, and about 6 month ago we decided to move in together. We have age difference and I am not quite sure if it’s relevant to this topic, but he is 31 and going to turn 23 in a couple of month. At the beginning of our relationship we had lots of sex, so much that sometimes I would need a break….but I always liked it. Then and now, he had and has the same amount of stress, but recently it became an excuse for not having sex, he also gained around 30 lbs since last year. When I’m trying to have a conversation about it, it seems that it is very sensitive topic for him – and it turns into small argument between us…and he would start saying things like he cant satisfy me anymore and blah blah blah
Therefore, if I won’t initiate it, 2 weeks can go by and he won’t even try to do anything.
Cheating is completely out of question…So I just wonder, if it’s age difference? The gaining weight thing? Or the fact that we moved in together?
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That is so weird, i have the same problem. Hopefully somebody got some thoughts.....
January 10, 2011 - 2:41pmMe and my boyfriend have been together for almost two years, and about 6 month ago we decided to move in together. We have age difference and I am not quite sure if it’s relevant to this topic, but he is 31 and going to turn 23 in a couple of month. At the beginning of our relationship we had lots of sex, so much that sometimes I would need a break….but I always liked it. Then and now, he had and has the same amount of stress, but recently it became an excuse for not having sex, he also gained around 30 lbs since last year. When I’m trying to have a conversation about it, it seems that it is very sensitive topic for him – and it turns into small argument between us…and he would start saying things like he cant satisfy me anymore and blah blah blah
Therefore, if I won’t initiate it, 2 weeks can go by and he won’t even try to do anything.
Cheating is completely out of question…So I just wonder, if it’s age difference? The gaining weight thing? Or the fact that we moved in together?
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