Sometimes it's just a sex issue in the marriage where the couple is happy but no sex. In your case, however, it goes much deeper than just lack of sex. Your comments like, "we sleep in separate beds", "he doesn't even say goodnight" and his lack of interest in the relationship altogether are signs that he is probably not interested anymore.
But what makes your family assume he's gay? Certainly not because he was a 25 year old virgin into anime...I know a few anime buffs myself and they are far from being gay.
I think you and him need to reevaluate your marriage... consider counseling if you are both interested in saving it. But it's definitely time to face the music and determine if you both want to be with eachother.
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Dear Anon,
Sometimes it's just a sex issue in the marriage where the couple is happy but no sex. In your case, however, it goes much deeper than just lack of sex. Your comments like, "we sleep in separate beds", "he doesn't even say goodnight" and his lack of interest in the relationship altogether are signs that he is probably not interested anymore.
But what makes your family assume he's gay? Certainly not because he was a 25 year old virgin into anime...I know a few anime buffs myself and they are far from being gay.
I think you and him need to reevaluate your marriage... consider counseling if you are both interested in saving it. But it's definitely time to face the music and determine if you both want to be with eachother.
Best Wishes!
January 15, 2011 - 7:14amThis Comment
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