Hi Anonymous,
Well, if he is not gay and just in depression mode, men have a hard time (as do women) knowing that they fall off the "I can do everything myself attitude" and get help to get it back together.
I agree and would be angry as well about the lack of sex. Although sex isn't everything in a relationship, it certainly brings two people together for that close feeling. I think putting your foot down about his distance and possibly removing yourself and the children from the situation temporarily may provide him a wake up call on his depression. It is hard to realize when you cannot do everything or be Superman, especially for your wife and children.
I certainly wish you the best and hope to hear what decisions you make.
Best of luck,
Missie
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Hi Anonymous,
Well, if he is not gay and just in depression mode, men have a hard time (as do women) knowing that they fall off the "I can do everything myself attitude" and get help to get it back together.
I agree and would be angry as well about the lack of sex. Although sex isn't everything in a relationship, it certainly brings two people together for that close feeling. I think putting your foot down about his distance and possibly removing yourself and the children from the situation temporarily may provide him a wake up call on his depression. It is hard to realize when you cannot do everything or be Superman, especially for your wife and children.
I certainly wish you the best and hope to hear what decisions you make.
January 15, 2011 - 10:30amBest of luck,
Missie
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