i have to disagree with you. im a guy and im in a relationship and im not a physical guy so i dont pursue sex actively with my girlfriend. its not a strange thing for a guy to do. for anyone who has this problem just sit down and talk to them. if he says he needs time, then alot is going on with him right now and he need to to figure it out. he will make sure everything is taken care of relationship wise ( maybe, if he can handle it) What yall can do in the mean time is just remain open and supportive. it will work out if it is supposed to.