I;ve been with my boyfriend for 4 years, like most relationships the sex was passionate, firer y and often in the beginning and then it became less over the years. For the past 3 years we haven't had sex much at all. He has said that he doesn't feel confident because he ejaculates quite quickly which is a common problem. I haven't had an orgasm in a very long time! but i have been understanding of his insecurities. Obviously this is a sensitive issue for him so i had just excepted it. However, in the last year i have become increasingly frustrated and angry that he hasn't tried to come onto me or make me feel like a sexual women. I feel like he doesn't actually care how i feel anymore, it's all about how he feels and his insecurities! when we argue he says why don't you make the first move, but because it's aways me making the first move i'm thinking maybe he's only having sex when he really has to when i need it, because it feels like he doesn't fancy me or worse yet maybe he is getting it elsewhere. This may not be the case but i have become insecure about not being wanted sexually. Can i please have a male opinion thanks.
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I;ve been with my boyfriend for 4 years, like most relationships the sex was passionate, firer y and often in the beginning and then it became less over the years. For the past 3 years we haven't had sex much at all. He has said that he doesn't feel confident because he ejaculates quite quickly which is a common problem. I haven't had an orgasm in a very long time! but i have been understanding of his insecurities. Obviously this is a sensitive issue for him so i had just excepted it. However, in the last year i have become increasingly frustrated and angry that he hasn't tried to come onto me or make me feel like a sexual women. I feel like he doesn't actually care how i feel anymore, it's all about how he feels and his insecurities! when we argue he says why don't you make the first move, but because it's aways me making the first move i'm thinking maybe he's only having sex when he really has to when i need it, because it feels like he doesn't fancy me or worse yet maybe he is getting it elsewhere. This may not be the case but i have become insecure about not being wanted sexually. Can i please have a male opinion thanks.
February 20, 2011 - 7:51amThis Comment
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