I'm glad Diane was so helpful!
To answer your question about how to pay for an OB/GYN. Do you have health insurance currently? If so, you may either need to make sure you have a referral from your PCP (primary care physician, who would be your GP), or you may have more freedom to pick an OB/GYN (either "in-network" or "out-of-network"). Depending on this information, your health insurance should "pick up the tab" (less any co-pays, deductibles, etc.) on office visits with an OB/GYN.
Is this what you were asking?
I hope you keep improving and feeling better....you sound like you are on the right track!