I am a woman who was sexually abused by her mother. My mother was a stripper and used sex to control my brother and me. When I was 1 I used to have s and m fantasies. I have been able to always give myself an orgasm in a couple of minutes. Do I feel sexy? I was marketed as such. Not a good thing, at all. I was far too sexual through my youth. Not my fault. It's taken me years to define my own self image. The problem with women is society owns our sexuality. We are judged constantly by our behaviour and dress. But to do with being sexy... Maybe too much sexuality is just as bad as repressed desire. It can run rampant and overtly sexual behaviour can destroy relationships. Sex can be used as a weapon, or as an act of expression of love. But it's power, and power can corrupt. My parent's overt sexuality drove them both insane. After 30 years, I am finally in control of mine. Remember, too much of a good thing is usually a bad thing. TV, food, drugs, and sex. Don't push people with what they are not comfortable with. Everyone has their own limits.
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I am a woman who was sexually abused by her mother. My mother was a stripper and used sex to control my brother and me. When I was 1 I used to have s and m fantasies. I have been able to always give myself an orgasm in a couple of minutes. Do I feel sexy? I was marketed as such. Not a good thing, at all. I was far too sexual through my youth. Not my fault. It's taken me years to define my own self image. The problem with women is society owns our sexuality. We are judged constantly by our behaviour and dress. But to do with being sexy... Maybe too much sexuality is just as bad as repressed desire. It can run rampant and overtly sexual behaviour can destroy relationships. Sex can be used as a weapon, or as an act of expression of love. But it's power, and power can corrupt. My parent's overt sexuality drove them both insane. After 30 years, I am finally in control of mine. Remember, too much of a good thing is usually a bad thing. TV, food, drugs, and sex. Don't push people with what they are not comfortable with. Everyone has their own limits.
October 30, 2009 - 4:48pmThis Comment
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