I didn't read through all the comments, but I would like to say to all the women who have "a problem" with this article, to understand that this was a very short look at female sexuality. As we are diverse in many ways, there is no possible way the author could have taken every view point into account here. It certainly didn't describe me very well, because I think I belong to the pseudo-male-women, who feel quilt for not wanting enough and not being more slutty, rather than those who feel quilt for wanting too much. That doesn't mean that I didn't get anything out of it. It certainly made me think, and it's not easy for me to admit, because I like to think there's nothing wrong with my sexuality but it's MEN's fault that they can't turn me on... Because I want to be swept off my feet, as it was put in the article. So I'm basically approaching the matter from two opposite ends that never meet in the middle. XD
Btw, I don't usually call women sluts, (and when I do, my definition is very different) but I can criticise them for being uptight and too hung up on morals. So yes, I too feel the need to define how women should be sexually to be "right".
I think this was a great article, and I would certainly want to read more from this fellow.
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I didn't read through all the comments, but I would like to say to all the women who have "a problem" with this article, to understand that this was a very short look at female sexuality. As we are diverse in many ways, there is no possible way the author could have taken every view point into account here. It certainly didn't describe me very well, because I think I belong to the pseudo-male-women, who feel quilt for not wanting enough and not being more slutty, rather than those who feel quilt for wanting too much. That doesn't mean that I didn't get anything out of it. It certainly made me think, and it's not easy for me to admit, because I like to think there's nothing wrong with my sexuality but it's MEN's fault that they can't turn me on... Because I want to be swept off my feet, as it was put in the article. So I'm basically approaching the matter from two opposite ends that never meet in the middle. XD
Btw, I don't usually call women sluts, (and when I do, my definition is very different) but I can criticise them for being uptight and too hung up on morals. So yes, I too feel the need to define how women should be sexually to be "right".
I think this was a great article, and I would certainly want to read more from this fellow.
October 30, 2009 - 6:28pmThis Comment
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