I don't think the author was promoting sex with strangers at all - the premise is that we are entitled to express our sexuality in our relationships, to not subjugate our needs to our partners' needs. We need to speak up about what it is we need in order to feel fulfilled which I think makes a lot of sense. I haven't been with any men who repress their desires or needs in bed - they feel entitled to sexual satisfaction and have no qualms in pursuing it. Why shouldn't women feel and act the same way? What makes us so special or deficient that we have to wait to be asked or hope that our partner will figure out what we want?
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I don't think the author was promoting sex with strangers at all - the premise is that we are entitled to express our sexuality in our relationships, to not subjugate our needs to our partners' needs. We need to speak up about what it is we need in order to feel fulfilled which I think makes a lot of sense. I haven't been with any men who repress their desires or needs in bed - they feel entitled to sexual satisfaction and have no qualms in pursuing it. Why shouldn't women feel and act the same way? What makes us so special or deficient that we have to wait to be asked or hope that our partner will figure out what we want?
December 5, 2009 - 11:48amThis Comment
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