The message of this article has nothing to do with sex in or out of a relationship, but with being comfortable enough with your own sexuality to seek sexual gratification and satisfaction, which tends to be an obstacle for most women. The objectification of women who are comfortable with being sexual was an illustration of what is wrong with common opinion, not what is right with it.
There is nothing wrong with encouraging women to be confident and strong, and to seek out their own happiness. If wearing lingerie isn't your thing, you probably look and feel and appear much sexier in more "comfortable" clothing, but that should not suggest that other women should not feel comfortable wearing it just because they don't look like a supermodel. Enjoying sex and looking sexy doesn't always have to be about pleasing a man. (And, if you want to get technical about it, it doesn't always have to be about pleasing a woman either.)
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The message of this article has nothing to do with sex in or out of a relationship, but with being comfortable enough with your own sexuality to seek sexual gratification and satisfaction, which tends to be an obstacle for most women. The objectification of women who are comfortable with being sexual was an illustration of what is wrong with common opinion, not what is right with it.
There is nothing wrong with encouraging women to be confident and strong, and to seek out their own happiness. If wearing lingerie isn't your thing, you probably look and feel and appear much sexier in more "comfortable" clothing, but that should not suggest that other women should not feel comfortable wearing it just because they don't look like a supermodel. Enjoying sex and looking sexy doesn't always have to be about pleasing a man. (And, if you want to get technical about it, it doesn't always have to be about pleasing a woman either.)
April 16, 2010 - 12:51pmThis Comment
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