It really seems like you are thinking more about what he wants rather than what is good for you. These things can be hard but he is keeping you dangling, waiting in the wings while he makes his mind up about something. Women so often let men have their cake and eat it too.
Why is it good enough for you to be in a relationship where you don't get your needs met; a loving and sexual relationship with a man who lives IN the country?
I think if you let go, you will be happier....I don't know if you watched "sex and the city" and this may seem harsh but is not meant to be...but "Maybe he's just not that into you"???? This can be freeing too...the idea that HE is not meeting YOUR needs....maybe if you break contact with him, it may be a wakeup call to him..and if not, at least you may be able to meet some man who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated.
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It really seems like you are thinking more about what he wants rather than what is good for you. These things can be hard but he is keeping you dangling, waiting in the wings while he makes his mind up about something. Women so often let men have their cake and eat it too.
June 9, 2009 - 9:59amWhy is it good enough for you to be in a relationship where you don't get your needs met; a loving and sexual relationship with a man who lives IN the country?
I think if you let go, you will be happier....I don't know if you watched "sex and the city" and this may seem harsh but is not meant to be...but "Maybe he's just not that into you"???? This can be freeing too...the idea that HE is not meeting YOUR needs....maybe if you break contact with him, it may be a wakeup call to him..and if not, at least you may be able to meet some man who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated.
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