My current partner of 2 years has been the same (he's 45 and never been married!). He's had a series of short relationships. Initially sex was fine but not that often 2-3 times a week. For the last 6 months he has completely stopped having sex or even kissing and touching intimately. I've been through all the same emotions and became quite upset about it. The hardest thing was the obvious fact he doesn't want us to seperate. I get a lot of attention from other men and and have turned down a relationship with a great guy because we intended to to get married. Now I'm worried that this will continue in the marriage to the extent I've put plans on hold. If he thinks I'm going to leave he makes more effort and (once actually had sex because he said he didn't want me to leave).... Personally having gone through this I don't think it's worth persuing. There are plenty of people who are willing to have 'complete' relationships.
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My current partner of 2 years has been the same (he's 45 and never been married!). He's had a series of short relationships. Initially sex was fine but not that often 2-3 times a week. For the last 6 months he has completely stopped having sex or even kissing and touching intimately. I've been through all the same emotions and became quite upset about it. The hardest thing was the obvious fact he doesn't want us to seperate. I get a lot of attention from other men and and have turned down a relationship with a great guy because we intended to to get married. Now I'm worried that this will continue in the marriage to the extent I've put plans on hold. If he thinks I'm going to leave he makes more effort and (once actually had sex because he said he didn't want me to leave).... Personally having gone through this I don't think it's worth persuing. There are plenty of people who are willing to have 'complete' relationships.
November 15, 2009 - 4:47pmThis Comment
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