I am taking it slow with him because of this mess with my ex husband. My daughter really like him but now she has nothing to do with me, him or my family. Her dad had isolated her and told her such horrible things that she just ignored my constant tries at trying to be with her and talk to her. It has been the worst 2 years of my life.. There is no good legal representation out there for someone like me. Not unless you have a ton of money... which my ex husband has. I never imagined that I would get to this point. I never thought someone, a man, could control you, manipulate you, like he did and still is doing. One man can make you feel so bad about yourself that you stay in a relationship that you know in your heart is bad. Do things you would never do to keep the marriage, to keep the man... Crazy.. sometimes I don't know myself anymore... huh..