I agree with Miscortes, the fact that you are feeling a tingly feeling like you have to urinate are signs that you are learning to orgasm. Here are some positions and tips from Discovery Health:
Part of learning to orgasm has to do with learning to be in the moment, without really concentrating on the moment. Does that make sense? If you think about it too much, your brain takes over -- and what you want to happen is for your body's sensations to take over. If you worry about it -- "there, is that it? am I doing it? am I getting closer? no, that's not it, it's not going to work, AGAIN" -- that self-talk kills the possibility. Focus on the sensation and on doing things that increase the sensation and you'll have more success.
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I agree with Miscortes, the fact that you are feeling a tingly feeling like you have to urinate are signs that you are learning to orgasm. Here are some positions and tips from Discovery Health:
http://health.discovery.com/centers/sex/articles/sextips.html
And from Go Ask Alice, of Columbia University:
http://www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/1838.html
Part of learning to orgasm has to do with learning to be in the moment, without really concentrating on the moment. Does that make sense? If you think about it too much, your brain takes over -- and what you want to happen is for your body's sensations to take over. If you worry about it -- "there, is that it? am I doing it? am I getting closer? no, that's not it, it's not going to work, AGAIN" -- that self-talk kills the possibility. Focus on the sensation and on doing things that increase the sensation and you'll have more success.
June 15, 2009 - 9:25amThis Comment
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