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Well I'm in a similar place, my bf is 6 years older we live together he is sexually attracted to me not as much as he used to be he loves me for me and asked me to marry him, the weight thing has always been an issue of mine I just like food I'm 5"5 and weigh about 175 I'm just chunky is all, iv been watching what I eat, he has told me he would love for us to look as good as we make each other feel, I think that it's ok to tell you to loose weight I tell him to gain it he's 6"8 and weighs literally 120 so, I'm loosing he's gaining were both making an effort I would love to loose like 40 pounds for our wedding one day, love is about honesty and support ya sucks to hear the truth but it's better then him going to screwing a woman he's attracted to instead of the woman he loves, do it for you and for the relationship he seems like he loves and cares about you...do it together work out eat healthy create a lifestyle for the two of you together