I agree with AlisonB. And also wonder how well you really know each other? Have you been living in different cities all this time? Is your relationship mostly over the phone and e mail? Have you ever had sex?
I agree that the main problems are not his lack of attraction to you but how well you even know each other for you to risk moving for him? Also, do you really fancy him? You are focusing on what he wants not what you want.
Too many women try to become what they think a man wants them to be and it rarely works out....if you loose weight, he may then find another "problem" with you.
Do you want to move to Seattle for yourself first and foremost? It's one thing to move for a man if you have already got an established relationship but another to do so on a whim. You can do better.
If you loose weight it should be for you and your health. If you move, it should be for you also.
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I agree with AlisonB. And also wonder how well you really know each other? Have you been living in different cities all this time? Is your relationship mostly over the phone and e mail? Have you ever had sex?
June 14, 2009 - 3:27pmI agree that the main problems are not his lack of attraction to you but how well you even know each other for you to risk moving for him? Also, do you really fancy him? You are focusing on what he wants not what you want.
Too many women try to become what they think a man wants them to be and it rarely works out....if you loose weight, he may then find another "problem" with you.
Do you want to move to Seattle for yourself first and foremost? It's one thing to move for a man if you have already got an established relationship but another to do so on a whim. You can do better.
If you loose weight it should be for you and your health. If you move, it should be for you also.
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