my boyfriend today told me that he wishes id loose weight so that he would be able to cuddle and love me im only 17 and weight 160 im 5'4 and have a chubby belly i always kinda knew people would always judge a girl like me with curves but in my understandings god made us all the way we are for a purpose in life and we should never feel '"unloved" because of our apperance it does mater what you look like on the out side for example bread it may look appitizing and appealing but as soon as you bite in to it you find that it has fungi thats just like a person just beacuase they have the best looking body doesnt mean that there heart and soul are just as perfect. i believe beauty is the key and its not looks its actions how we treat one another is how we all she be pertrade as... just becuase your not the "body type" he likes well sorry to say he either gets over it or you move on and find someone that will love ebry inche of your body from you head to your toes to how you act to others... you are 38 and hes 22 you are 16 years older then him you should already know that if someone doesnt love you now then hunny there not going to love you when you 20 pounds lighter its not weight he is just a controlling and moniplitive guy who needs power to stay in a relationship my mom was in one of those in her first marriage he would mentaly drain her and tell her she needs to loose weight after having 3 kids and only gaining 110 pounds he still told her that she reliezed one day she didnt need to put up with that "unconditional love" is loveing someone and all there flaws its loving there wieght there smiles ther everything thats why its called unconditional love ... look in the mirro im sure you will see that you deserve better if not then ill keep you in my prays
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my boyfriend today told me that he wishes id loose weight so that he would be able to cuddle and love me im only 17 and weight 160 im 5'4 and have a chubby belly i always kinda knew people would always judge a girl like me with curves but in my understandings god made us all the way we are for a purpose in life and we should never feel '"unloved" because of our apperance it does mater what you look like on the out side for example bread it may look appitizing and appealing but as soon as you bite in to it you find that it has fungi thats just like a person just beacuase they have the best looking body doesnt mean that there heart and soul are just as perfect. i believe beauty is the key and its not looks its actions how we treat one another is how we all she be pertrade as... just becuase your not the "body type" he likes well sorry to say he either gets over it or you move on and find someone that will love ebry inche of your body from you head to your toes to how you act to others... you are 38 and hes 22 you are 16 years older then him you should already know that if someone doesnt love you now then hunny there not going to love you when you 20 pounds lighter its not weight he is just a controlling and moniplitive guy who needs power to stay in a relationship my mom was in one of those in her first marriage he would mentaly drain her and tell her she needs to loose weight after having 3 kids and only gaining 110 pounds he still told her that she reliezed one day she didnt need to put up with that "unconditional love" is loveing someone and all there flaws its loving there wieght there smiles ther everything thats why its called unconditional love ... look in the mirro im sure you will see that you deserve better if not then ill keep you in my prays
September 2, 2011 - 11:07pmThis Comment
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