I appreciate your comments because I do not what else to do. But looking from my view point I would like your advice. I have a neighbour from last 25 years. He was married with children and was always moody, some days he will respond to my greeting and some days he would not respond. some 10-12 years ago his wife knocked on my door and looked distressed and requested me to let me use the phone to call police, which I let her do, my wife and daughter was home as well at the time. I do not know or did not get involved further. she eventually left him and lived at different address, which was provided to her by her husbands sister.
Then abuse against me started after six months, accusing me of having affair with his wife (totally false accusation) in front of my wife and daughter at the time only a teenager. I remained tolerant as I was supported by my family who know and believe me. Since then I have been periodically harassed in different ways from throwing things through the letter box to attempt to strangle me. We live in the block of flats and we both are leaseholders, his wife having a stake in it too but would not sell it despite separated for 10-12 years. the flats are facing each other with about 2-3 meters between the doors.
Recently he accused me of assault and robbery. I work hard to support my disabled wife and my job involves police clearance. this was a serious allegation and have just got away by a whisker as he made a mistake in his statement which determined that the statement was false, He has been warned in past and he remains quite for the period of time and starts again with a new concept. I work hard, look after my disabled wife and a little dog, I do not have time for the games he plays and he gets better every time, he nearly threw me in the jail. I am worried that what would happen to the disabled wife if I were to be locked up, she is shaken up but we cant do anything, he claims insanity and can play the system.
Hoping I would some day able to have peace, I am a law abiding citizen, have sympathy for his condition, cant talk to him as reasoning with him is not on table, and I am stuck as I cant afford to move house. Any help????
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I appreciate your comments because I do not what else to do. But looking from my view point I would like your advice. I have a neighbour from last 25 years. He was married with children and was always moody, some days he will respond to my greeting and some days he would not respond. some 10-12 years ago his wife knocked on my door and looked distressed and requested me to let me use the phone to call police, which I let her do, my wife and daughter was home as well at the time. I do not know or did not get involved further. she eventually left him and lived at different address, which was provided to her by her husbands sister.
November 5, 2015 - 4:12pmThen abuse against me started after six months, accusing me of having affair with his wife (totally false accusation) in front of my wife and daughter at the time only a teenager. I remained tolerant as I was supported by my family who know and believe me. Since then I have been periodically harassed in different ways from throwing things through the letter box to attempt to strangle me. We live in the block of flats and we both are leaseholders, his wife having a stake in it too but would not sell it despite separated for 10-12 years. the flats are facing each other with about 2-3 meters between the doors.
Recently he accused me of assault and robbery. I work hard to support my disabled wife and my job involves police clearance. this was a serious allegation and have just got away by a whisker as he made a mistake in his statement which determined that the statement was false, He has been warned in past and he remains quite for the period of time and starts again with a new concept. I work hard, look after my disabled wife and a little dog, I do not have time for the games he plays and he gets better every time, he nearly threw me in the jail. I am worried that what would happen to the disabled wife if I were to be locked up, she is shaken up but we cant do anything, he claims insanity and can play the system.
Hoping I would some day able to have peace, I am a law abiding citizen, have sympathy for his condition, cant talk to him as reasoning with him is not on table, and I am stuck as I cant afford to move house. Any help????
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