Hi. My husband has accidentally done this before too. It has happened a couple times and the pain is so bad I fell like crying. This past time hurt so much worse than before. The problem wad speed and the amount of lube. I know it was an accident because my husband would never purposely harm me or inflict pain on purpose. We just need to be more conscious that these accidents can and do happen. As far as being afraid to be intimate with my spouse isn't a problem we will be more cautious and I suggest taking it slow. If you need extra lube try to use little as possible but still comfortable. My spouse and I usually do like so... he pleases me first and then we take care of him but get in positions I'm comfortable with but still being ones he likes. I have learned being intimate also includes free communication on both sides.
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Hi. My husband has accidentally done this before too. It has happened a couple times and the pain is so bad I fell like crying. This past time hurt so much worse than before. The problem wad speed and the amount of lube. I know it was an accident because my husband would never purposely harm me or inflict pain on purpose. We just need to be more conscious that these accidents can and do happen. As far as being afraid to be intimate with my spouse isn't a problem we will be more cautious and I suggest taking it slow. If you need extra lube try to use little as possible but still comfortable. My spouse and I usually do like so... he pleases me first and then we take care of him but get in positions I'm comfortable with but still being ones he likes. I have learned being intimate also includes free communication on both sides.
February 4, 2011 - 9:40pmThis Comment
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