I am in love with a man separated from his wife - they've lived apart for 2 years - and who admits to having loads of affairs. Not having had, but having, so I suppose he is still indulging. He does not give much time to them, I feel as he is so b usy, he has 3 jobs. He lives in his fathers old house, and I am at the end of a divorce and have a room in a house a way away. He seems to really love me, we have so much in common, we do things together and people always assume we are a couple, but we have only made love about 6 times in 2 years with wide gaps between, and for the past 4 months nothing. We do have opportunity and yet the lovemaking - or I suppose sex - is only ever a quickie and then he leaps out and gets dressed and goes off. I finally plucked up courage to ask why he has not wanted to make love tho I approach him, carress him, etc, and he gave mixed answers about how he fouls up relationships if they include sex, so felt that he would not include that in our relationship - or that he did not know if he would divorce so it was not fair to give me hope. So what's that mean? Just I suppose that he is happy being with me but I don't turn him on? and his affairs do. And yet everything else is so good.
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I am in love with a man separated from his wife - they've lived apart for 2 years - and who admits to having loads of affairs. Not having had, but having, so I suppose he is still indulging. He does not give much time to them, I feel as he is so b usy, he has 3 jobs. He lives in his fathers old house, and I am at the end of a divorce and have a room in a house a way away. He seems to really love me, we have so much in common, we do things together and people always assume we are a couple, but we have only made love about 6 times in 2 years with wide gaps between, and for the past 4 months nothing. We do have opportunity and yet the lovemaking - or I suppose sex - is only ever a quickie and then he leaps out and gets dressed and goes off. I finally plucked up courage to ask why he has not wanted to make love tho I approach him, carress him, etc, and he gave mixed answers about how he fouls up relationships if they include sex, so felt that he would not include that in our relationship - or that he did not know if he would divorce so it was not fair to give me hope. So what's that mean? Just I suppose that he is happy being with me but I don't turn him on? and his affairs do. And yet everything else is so good.
July 19, 2009 - 11:10pmThis Comment
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