I read your post and am beginning to wonder if I dated the same man you are dating currently. I experienced the exact treatment with the exact explanations. He too looked at other women. He lived in NYC and was English. To get straight to the point, it is NOT normal and is a sign that something is wrong. Not with you but with him. He clearly will not address the issue by going to a physician which would be the first step. I recommend that you find a man who will adore you and love you in the way you want and deserve. HIs behavior will not change and the longer you tolerate it the lower your self esteem will fall and you will feel insecure and unattractive. Dump him and look forward to a healthy and loving sex life with a man who is waiting around the corner for you to appear. I hope this is helpful and I am sorry you are experiencing this. I put up with it for 6 months and never again. I even let any potential boyfriends that any behavior such as that will be unacceptable. At least my experience taught me another thing I will never tolerate in a man and how I expect to be treated but it was a hard lesson to learn because, like you, I had never experienced it before.
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I read your post and am beginning to wonder if I dated the same man you are dating currently. I experienced the exact treatment with the exact explanations. He too looked at other women. He lived in NYC and was English. To get straight to the point, it is NOT normal and is a sign that something is wrong. Not with you but with him. He clearly will not address the issue by going to a physician which would be the first step. I recommend that you find a man who will adore you and love you in the way you want and deserve. HIs behavior will not change and the longer you tolerate it the lower your self esteem will fall and you will feel insecure and unattractive. Dump him and look forward to a healthy and loving sex life with a man who is waiting around the corner for you to appear. I hope this is helpful and I am sorry you are experiencing this. I put up with it for 6 months and never again. I even let any potential boyfriends that any behavior such as that will be unacceptable. At least my experience taught me another thing I will never tolerate in a man and how I expect to be treated but it was a hard lesson to learn because, like you, I had never experienced it before.
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