I love this website. I really do. Haha. I was literally smiling reading that last paragraph.
Anyway, when I was talking to him about it he said that since he had never gone to a place like hooters before while dating me, he wasn't sure if I would let him and he wanted to go with a group of his single friends. He also claimed that he thought I knew he was going because his brother was walking around the house yelling "YEAH HOOTERS!!!" thr day before, when I was at his house. I honestly didn't put two and two together. So I totally understand why he was afraid to tell me. I also told him exactly what you said, witholding information like that IS the same as lying and he lost some of my trust by doing that. I also asked him if we could go together sometime (I was supposed to go a few months ago with friends but the group got split up while we were there and I ended up missing it) anyway, I also said that I have absolutly have no problem with hooters or strip clubs or anything like that because if he's gotthe self control, he can handle it. If not, I'm gone. I understand him wanting to go to places like that cause of the curiosity and stuff and I mean, why not? He's 18...he can have a little fun. Haha.
Thanks for all of that advice :) I feel great knowing that I can get instant feedback on issues like this that I may have.
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I love this website. I really do. Haha. I was literally smiling reading that last paragraph.
July 20, 2009 - 2:49pmAnyway, when I was talking to him about it he said that since he had never gone to a place like hooters before while dating me, he wasn't sure if I would let him and he wanted to go with a group of his single friends. He also claimed that he thought I knew he was going because his brother was walking around the house yelling "YEAH HOOTERS!!!" thr day before, when I was at his house. I honestly didn't put two and two together. So I totally understand why he was afraid to tell me. I also told him exactly what you said, witholding information like that IS the same as lying and he lost some of my trust by doing that. I also asked him if we could go together sometime (I was supposed to go a few months ago with friends but the group got split up while we were there and I ended up missing it) anyway, I also said that I have absolutly have no problem with hooters or strip clubs or anything like that because if he's gotthe self control, he can handle it. If not, I'm gone. I understand him wanting to go to places like that cause of the curiosity and stuff and I mean, why not? He's 18...he can have a little fun. Haha.
Thanks for all of that advice :) I feel great knowing that I can get instant feedback on issues like this that I may have.
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