I had a donut pessary inserted by my obgyn yesterday and let me tell you it ws one of the most hurtful things that I have had done. I came home and after three hours I felt like I had to have a bowel movement and I did along with the pessary came out . what a relief it was. I am concidering having my vagina close to end my problem as me and my husband are not sexually active anymore. what is your take on this ? I would like anyone to tell me if it is ok and has it solved their problems.