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There are a few things that come to mind. First is that people will only change if they WANT to. You were on the right track when you tried suggesting doing a 69. I would suggest telling him how much it turns you on when he goes down on you and how it makes you want to do all those fun dirty things he likes you to do(make it about him), but remember that your frame of mind is important, if you are asking him to do it from a "i'm pissed off and frustrated" frame of mind it wont have the same impact as asking from a "I just want us to be happy together" frame of mind. Another thing that comes to mind is that rythm can be extremely important to a lot of women, some girls like it fast and hard some like that slow glide. Guys dont really get that. If you happen to be a girl who likes that slow gliding sensation you will want to tell your guy that you need him to keep that rythm even when you are close to coming and through your climax. It's amazing how much difference that can make for a girl. Hope this helps