I am very sorry you are dealing with anal cancer right now. But you sound like an amazing woman and I am confident that you will beat it--you can tell from your posts what a smart and positive-thinking person you are. Like Michelle, I am so impressed that you are taking the time to help others right now. I'd like to help you in some way but I'm not sure what I can do--please tell us what we can do for you!
Your posts are very timely as I have a dear friend who has a friend who may be dealing with this issue herself very soon...she is in the testing phase right now but depending on what her results are I may be forwarding her this information.
Take care, Nancy Drew Fan