my boyfriend and i have a great sex life bit he does watch a little bit of porn and maturbates, but that is just when we havnt been able to have sex for a while or i havnt seen him. its just to relieve himself when im not there for a little while. but he is still 100% interested in me and having sex with me also.
i think that if your boyfriend prefers masturabtion to porn than having sex with you, or just masturbates and never has sex with you then i think that more than just relieving himself. especially if you live together! i think you need to have a real talk with him about how you feel and how this is not only effecting you but your relationship. if he doesnt respond... then i dont think he will be changing quickly.
i dont want to tell you to break up with him, or stay with him.. because that is ultimatley your decision and youll base that on how you feel. but do talk to him and see how he responds and if anything changes.
i think a relationship can involve a little porn (mostly on the mans side), but only to reliev himself if you are not around for say a week or more. but i dont belive a relationship can work if porn is replacing you.
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hi scarlet24,
my boyfriend and i have a great sex life bit he does watch a little bit of porn and maturbates, but that is just when we havnt been able to have sex for a while or i havnt seen him. its just to relieve himself when im not there for a little while. but he is still 100% interested in me and having sex with me also.
i think that if your boyfriend prefers masturabtion to porn than having sex with you, or just masturbates and never has sex with you then i think that more than just relieving himself. especially if you live together! i think you need to have a real talk with him about how you feel and how this is not only effecting you but your relationship. if he doesnt respond... then i dont think he will be changing quickly.
i dont want to tell you to break up with him, or stay with him.. because that is ultimatley your decision and youll base that on how you feel. but do talk to him and see how he responds and if anything changes.
i think a relationship can involve a little porn (mostly on the mans side), but only to reliev himself if you are not around for say a week or more. but i dont belive a relationship can work if porn is replacing you.
August 7, 2009 - 6:37pmThis Comment
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