Have you tried speaking to you wife about this? It's always better to communicate than to resort to pornography which may make her feel ugly, rejected and cheated on. Also, porn can be addictive and can make men begin to objectify the women in their lives.
I know that you are just trying to give answers to the question asker but I can't help but comment on your post.
I don't believe that resorting to porn is EVER the answer in a relationship. Talking things over, even having a guidance councellor, these things may help but porn doesn't in the long term. The longer men continue to masturbate to porn, the less pleasurable sex with a REAL women can become for them, so they get lazy and don't bother trying any more.
http://www.oprah.com/relationships/The-Negative-Effects-of-Porn
This is a very interestng article which speaks to this very problem. Just something to think about.
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Have you tried speaking to you wife about this? It's always better to communicate than to resort to pornography which may make her feel ugly, rejected and cheated on. Also, porn can be addictive and can make men begin to objectify the women in their lives.
February 10, 2010 - 4:58pmI know that you are just trying to give answers to the question asker but I can't help but comment on your post.
I don't believe that resorting to porn is EVER the answer in a relationship. Talking things over, even having a guidance councellor, these things may help but porn doesn't in the long term. The longer men continue to masturbate to porn, the less pleasurable sex with a REAL women can become for them, so they get lazy and don't bother trying any more.
http://www.oprah.com/relationships/The-Negative-Effects-of-Porn
This is a very interestng article which speaks to this very problem. Just something to think about.
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