If he loves you and gets turned on by you initially then he's not gay. A gay man wouldn't be turned on by a woman or be romantically attached.
For some people sex is just a complicated thing.
The above comment was very insightful. I'd just like to add to it that depression can be a major cause of impotence. If your boyfriend feels anyway depressed it can have a major impact on sexual performance. If he does maybe he should seek some professional help.
Other than that all I can recommend is for you to be patient and not focus on it too much. Let him get comfortable and feel that there is no pressure for him to perform or satisfy you.
He should also make sure he does enough exercises and possibly a discipline such as yoga or meditation where he can train himself to be more relaxed and not hung up on a negative self image of himself or be worried about satisfying you.
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If he loves you and gets turned on by you initially then he's not gay. A gay man wouldn't be turned on by a woman or be romantically attached.
For some people sex is just a complicated thing.
The above comment was very insightful. I'd just like to add to it that depression can be a major cause of impotence. If your boyfriend feels anyway depressed it can have a major impact on sexual performance. If he does maybe he should seek some professional help.
Other than that all I can recommend is for you to be patient and not focus on it too much. Let him get comfortable and feel that there is no pressure for him to perform or satisfy you.
He should also make sure he does enough exercises and possibly a discipline such as yoga or meditation where he can train himself to be more relaxed and not hung up on a negative self image of himself or be worried about satisfying you.
September 3, 2009 - 2:34pmThis Comment
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