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I am stuck in a Bind and maybe you of you can help me. My son have visits with his dad on the weekends. His dad has been neglecting my sons needs and leaving it up to his new wwife to care for all of my sons needs while he is there. I have been slowly finding out things like not fallowing his diet that is medically needed. He bring him home early because he can not handle him. 2 weekends ago he never showed to pick him up because i told him i was taking him back to court, didnt say anything about him not fallowing his court order. So i brought him there and dropped him off. I then told him that, He was not going to have visits anymore untill he has an active phone that I can contact him on if there is an emergancy. So he never showed to pick him up. I did not bring him there. I am not going to force him to take him for visits that he does not want. I need help with this. I feel I need to find my son an advocate. Someone that can help me make that right choices for him. Is father doesnt want to be, obviously. I need to make up my mind. Go to court, revoke all visits, or let it go and hope he will ask to see him again. I need to think of my sons safty. He is slowly killing my son and i dont know how to help. If I take away my sons visits, will he hate me for taking him away from dad, and if I dont will his father kill him feeding him foods that over time will lead to brain damage and even worst, death. I am going to file with the court, but I am still unsure how to deal with this.I want to do what is best for my son. With his condition and diet restrictions I want o do what is right for him.