Please help me my heart is broken and I am so glad I found this site. The stories sound so familiar my husband whom I love with all my heart is either gay or bisexual. I have caught him 3 times now the first was arranging a threesome he said he was never going to follow through with now its the gay chatting with men like you said very sexual and planning to meet but says now that caught for the third time and now I am finding more on credit card site and porn. He says now he thinks he may be bisexual he don't know curious and exploring, but he loves me. The trust is so gone as he continues to Lie, he says now he wants to have a honest discussion. But what is honest ?? Please Please help me do I just let him go he said he has never followed through but how long until he does. He says he stopping and cant back on again. Any anwer would be appreciated.