I got married when I was 18 as well. My husband was a bit worse than yours though. We didn't have a "honeymoon" stage because he would never actually come to bed. He had set up a room and would stay in there all night with his extra hard drive of porn. I loved my husband very much, and am not a bad looking woman. We have been over this so... many times. Actually, it is one of the only things we ever fight about. He says the reason he likes porn is for the variety. "It's like staring at a beautiful picture for a really long time and than seeing a flash of another picture. You want to know what the f*** that other picture was."
Try to talk to him about it. If it is going to ruin the love life for you than he NEEDS to know. To warn you: I have been telling my husband this for years, and he still hasn't changed. I actually just walked in on him this morning jacking off to a "Red headed slut." I am quoting here. I mean no offense. It isn't going to change unless they get help. And in order for them to get help, they have to want it.
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I got married when I was 18 as well. My husband was a bit worse than yours though. We didn't have a "honeymoon" stage because he would never actually come to bed. He had set up a room and would stay in there all night with his extra hard drive of porn. I loved my husband very much, and am not a bad looking woman. We have been over this so... many times. Actually, it is one of the only things we ever fight about. He says the reason he likes porn is for the variety. "It's like staring at a beautiful picture for a really long time and than seeing a flash of another picture. You want to know what the f*** that other picture was."
June 7, 2010 - 5:37amTry to talk to him about it. If it is going to ruin the love life for you than he NEEDS to know. To warn you: I have been telling my husband this for years, and he still hasn't changed. I actually just walked in on him this morning jacking off to a "Red headed slut." I am quoting here. I mean no offense. It isn't going to change unless they get help. And in order for them to get help, they have to want it.
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