Hi there, I am looking for some advice. I am 6 months pregnant with my first child. I fear that my boyfriend of 6 years may be passive-aggressive. He has not held a job for 5 of the 6 years we have been together. He has never really been affectionate, and just recently (within the past 7 months) went to the doctor for anxiety. He says that for the past several years he has been dealing with a great deal of anxiety. All I ever saw was him staying up all night drinking and playing computer games. Also, he is tremendously stubborn. He will purposely not do something because I ask him to. Lately, he stays out all night at a friends house, and when he does come home he stays on the computer and goes to bed at like 3, 4 or 5 in the morning and will sleep all day. When I do ask him to come to bed, or not to stay up all night, or even to start looking for a job, he gets mad and tells me not to nag him that he is sick of hearing it and that he will look for a job, but never does. I have asked him if we can go to couples counseling and he says that he does not need counseling. I don't know what else to do. We argue allllll the time. help?
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Hi there, I am looking for some advice. I am 6 months pregnant with my first child. I fear that my boyfriend of 6 years may be passive-aggressive. He has not held a job for 5 of the 6 years we have been together. He has never really been affectionate, and just recently (within the past 7 months) went to the doctor for anxiety. He says that for the past several years he has been dealing with a great deal of anxiety. All I ever saw was him staying up all night drinking and playing computer games. Also, he is tremendously stubborn. He will purposely not do something because I ask him to. Lately, he stays out all night at a friends house, and when he does come home he stays on the computer and goes to bed at like 3, 4 or 5 in the morning and will sleep all day. When I do ask him to come to bed, or not to stay up all night, or even to start looking for a job, he gets mad and tells me not to nag him that he is sick of hearing it and that he will look for a job, but never does. I have asked him if we can go to couples counseling and he says that he does not need counseling. I don't know what else to do. We argue allllll the time. help?
November 14, 2009 - 9:56pmThis Comment
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