Melanie,
I seriously understand where your coming from. My boyfriend is exactly the same. In our relationship he is pretty much the one that says when we have sex. And i can't stand that. I've also tried to tell him when i want to or try to start something sometimes but it gets me no where. I know how you feel, but yesterday we actually had a really good conversation and i got to understand why he is sometimes like that. I did tell him i understood, but this is a two person relationship and he needs to understand where i'm coming from. I really think you need to talk to you boyfriend and he needs to understand that its not fair, and if he really loves you things will change.
-sachick
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Melanie,
August 26, 2009 - 8:06pmI seriously understand where your coming from. My boyfriend is exactly the same. In our relationship he is pretty much the one that says when we have sex. And i can't stand that. I've also tried to tell him when i want to or try to start something sometimes but it gets me no where. I know how you feel, but yesterday we actually had a really good conversation and i got to understand why he is sometimes like that. I did tell him i understood, but this is a two person relationship and he needs to understand where i'm coming from. I really think you need to talk to you boyfriend and he needs to understand that its not fair, and if he really loves you things will change.
-sachick
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