As what SusanC said, some people have different levels of dealing with infidelity. Say for my case, my hubby didn't technically cheat on me, however, since I know who and what he was before we got together, let's just say even after more than half a decade of being together, I am still afraid of his past and he will feel this fear for sure.
For some people, it takes a lot especially with the way our society perceives men being more than likely to cheat and not the other way around, it takes a lot of ego from them.
However, since he did marry you still after knowing what happened, then I assume he really does feel strongly about you. If he mentioned that his job and dilemma with parents are bringing him stress, then this might also be the triggering factor for him to go back to what you have done before. Do you know specifically what's happening to his parents? Maybe one of them cheated on someone and that its making him think of what you did to him somehow?
Lastly, you will need a lot of patience in dealing with this especially since you were at fault before and regardless of the time frame, infidelity is not the easiest of sins to go under the bridge to. Keep this in mind so that you will be more patient in dealing with him. You need to.
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As what SusanC said, some people have different levels of dealing with infidelity. Say for my case, my hubby didn't technically cheat on me, however, since I know who and what he was before we got together, let's just say even after more than half a decade of being together, I am still afraid of his past and he will feel this fear for sure.
For some people, it takes a lot especially with the way our society perceives men being more than likely to cheat and not the other way around, it takes a lot of ego from them.
However, since he did marry you still after knowing what happened, then I assume he really does feel strongly about you. If he mentioned that his job and dilemma with parents are bringing him stress, then this might also be the triggering factor for him to go back to what you have done before. Do you know specifically what's happening to his parents? Maybe one of them cheated on someone and that its making him think of what you did to him somehow?
Lastly, you will need a lot of patience in dealing with this especially since you were at fault before and regardless of the time frame, infidelity is not the easiest of sins to go under the bridge to. Keep this in mind so that you will be more patient in dealing with him. You need to.
September 11, 2009 - 3:50amThis Comment
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