It sounds like he has been manipulating you with sex for a while. No, not everyone can satisfy EVERY fantasy that their partners have. We all have different opinions and feelings on what feels good, what doesn't, and what our limits are.
Just as it is important to be open about your sexual fantasies to your partner, it is important to respect the others decisions about them. And the manipulation continues when he says "Cheating is inevitable". No, cheating is cheating no matter what the reason and there is no justification for it.
Try to talk to him, don't fall for the manipulation which is obviously now affecting your self esteem. If there is no way through to him, I think you know what to do.
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Preciousgift1,
It sounds like he has been manipulating you with sex for a while. No, not everyone can satisfy EVERY fantasy that their partners have. We all have different opinions and feelings on what feels good, what doesn't, and what our limits are.
Just as it is important to be open about your sexual fantasies to your partner, it is important to respect the others decisions about them. And the manipulation continues when he says "Cheating is inevitable". No, cheating is cheating no matter what the reason and there is no justification for it.
Try to talk to him, don't fall for the manipulation which is obviously now affecting your self esteem. If there is no way through to him, I think you know what to do.
September 10, 2009 - 12:28pmThis Comment
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