Dear girls!
Can't stop thanking you for your help!
We talked today and my bf agreed it was a bit over the top. He was so depressed after our conversation and even said that he hates himself and considers himself sexually sick. As pain gives him pleasure, I mean when he sees me with another man, for example. I hope, it will be only in his mind and he differentiate where imagination and reality are.
I told him its just a bit too much to ask for it, its OK if its gonna happen only between us and that`s it. It was too wild and dangerous for me, though he doesn't agree till now, it was so safe from his point of view. He came up with not telling me his wild thoughts and keep them for himself. It hurt me a bit, as I don't want him to have any sexual secrets from me, but then I realized it's the best agreement we could reach together. Now I will just see how it will go and what he's eager to change for me to make me more comfortable and confident in our relationship.
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Dear girls!
September 11, 2009 - 4:40amCan't stop thanking you for your help!
We talked today and my bf agreed it was a bit over the top. He was so depressed after our conversation and even said that he hates himself and considers himself sexually sick. As pain gives him pleasure, I mean when he sees me with another man, for example. I hope, it will be only in his mind and he differentiate where imagination and reality are.
I told him its just a bit too much to ask for it, its OK if its gonna happen only between us and that`s it. It was too wild and dangerous for me, though he doesn't agree till now, it was so safe from his point of view. He came up with not telling me his wild thoughts and keep them for himself. It hurt me a bit, as I don't want him to have any sexual secrets from me, but then I realized it's the best agreement we could reach together. Now I will just see how it will go and what he's eager to change for me to make me more comfortable and confident in our relationship.
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