Hi Liketoday,
I am sorry you are so sad.....I see from your profile that you have suffered a lot. You are beautiful, as is your baby and at least your man is seeking professional help for his pornography "temptation".
I believe that porn has a lot of ill effects on a relationship. If you search on here, there are many, many stories of women like you who are dealing with unwanted porn in their relationships.
To support your husband, is there a way you could go to a therapy session with him? Or try couples councelling? Does he know how you feel about the porn? It's important to be open and honest.
There is nothing wrong with you...it sounds like you may benefit from therapy yourself as you have been abused. I hope that your husband is sensitive towards you because of this?
This is NOT your fault.....it is NEVER a child's fault that they are abused and it is not your fault now that your husband is going through this problem.
I am sure that others will give great advice...I am just another reader but I wanted to say that I feel for you and things will be ok eventually if you can communicate well ,perhaps with a professional's help.
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Hi Liketoday,
September 19, 2009 - 5:57pmI am sorry you are so sad.....I see from your profile that you have suffered a lot. You are beautiful, as is your baby and at least your man is seeking professional help for his pornography "temptation".
I believe that porn has a lot of ill effects on a relationship. If you search on here, there are many, many stories of women like you who are dealing with unwanted porn in their relationships.
To support your husband, is there a way you could go to a therapy session with him? Or try couples councelling? Does he know how you feel about the porn? It's important to be open and honest.
There is nothing wrong with you...it sounds like you may benefit from therapy yourself as you have been abused. I hope that your husband is sensitive towards you because of this?
This is NOT your fault.....it is NEVER a child's fault that they are abused and it is not your fault now that your husband is going through this problem.
I am sure that others will give great advice...I am just another reader but I wanted to say that I feel for you and things will be ok eventually if you can communicate well ,perhaps with a professional's help.
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