my a/s husband just carries on in his own sweet aspergers way.he will not discuss it or read up on it.he is so stubburn.
i think if he read up on it,he thinks he will loose face by admitting he has it.and of course they do not like change,and to make a move to change his behaviour will mean change.why should he change.he has the life he wants///,it may make me happier,but that may mean i am more affectionate to him.and he cant stand that.
i think we have to change,not them.and if they make a small change,to please you.dont mention it.they see it as admitting they were wrong in first place.
my a/s husband actualy told me THE MORE YOU TALK ABOUT A/S .I WILL NOT LISTEN,SO SHUT UP.no point eh???
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my a/s husband just carries on in his own sweet aspergers way.he will not discuss it or read up on it.he is so stubburn.
November 21, 2010 - 8:15ami think if he read up on it,he thinks he will loose face by admitting he has it.and of course they do not like change,and to make a move to change his behaviour will mean change.why should he change.he has the life he wants///,it may make me happier,but that may mean i am more affectionate to him.and he cant stand that.
i think we have to change,not them.and if they make a small change,to please you.dont mention it.they see it as admitting they were wrong in first place.
my a/s husband actualy told me THE MORE YOU TALK ABOUT A/S .I WILL NOT LISTEN,SO SHUT UP.no point eh???
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