I agree with what Allison suggested. I am also sorry to hear about the things that you are dealing with and had to endure. It is certainly beneficial to you to seek professional help in this situation. We all tend to have issues with our pasts that come to haunt us in the future but it is certainly not your new man's fault. It is hard to change that thought pattern by ourselves.
One of the things you will learn in counseling is that none of the things that occurred to you was your fault. As such, the next person in your life will not be the same as the first. Everyone is different. I know that seems hard to believe at times but it is certainly the truth.
I hope that you obtain the help you need so you may move on and live a fulfilled life. Please keep us updated on your progress.
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Hi Anna,
I agree with what Allison suggested. I am also sorry to hear about the things that you are dealing with and had to endure. It is certainly beneficial to you to seek professional help in this situation. We all tend to have issues with our pasts that come to haunt us in the future but it is certainly not your new man's fault. It is hard to change that thought pattern by ourselves.
One of the things you will learn in counseling is that none of the things that occurred to you was your fault. As such, the next person in your life will not be the same as the first. Everyone is different. I know that seems hard to believe at times but it is certainly the truth.
I hope that you obtain the help you need so you may move on and live a fulfilled life. Please keep us updated on your progress.
October 11, 2009 - 8:50amThis Comment
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