Well i finally decided that the anticipation was killing me so i went to the local dollar store and bought two pregnancy tests. I took one as soon as i got around 6pm it was negative. i decided that i better wait and take another one in the morning because of the possibility of a false negative. The next morning i woke up and took the test right away it was also negative.
i hope im in the clear (laugh out loud) however i still have not recieved my period and i am now a week late. I am hoping that my period is just irregular because i had surgery and i was on antibiotics and my immune system was weakend.
So overall im still waiting for my period but as far as waiting for a baby i dont think that will happen for several years.
thanks so much for your advice and help