Having no privacy can certainly be a drawback in any relationship. However, there are plenty of hotels and motels for people like you and there is no shame in it. Have you tried going on a date and instead of heading back to one of your homes go to a hotel? You can try a less expensive motel if you can't afford getting a room for the night at a hotel. Get sexy, make him feel fabulous and have fun. If lack of privacy is truly the problem, this should help some. If not, then there is a bigger problem at hand-- it may be stress about his father or lack of interest on his behalf. If that is the issue, then perhaps couples therapy may be the solution or the inevitable going separate ways. It's been 6 years so I'm willing to bet some of the spark and spontaneity has been lost in the bedroom. If you can remember what it was like while you were dating, try to bring him back to that spot.
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Ms. Lost,
Having no privacy can certainly be a drawback in any relationship. However, there are plenty of hotels and motels for people like you and there is no shame in it. Have you tried going on a date and instead of heading back to one of your homes go to a hotel? You can try a less expensive motel if you can't afford getting a room for the night at a hotel. Get sexy, make him feel fabulous and have fun. If lack of privacy is truly the problem, this should help some. If not, then there is a bigger problem at hand-- it may be stress about his father or lack of interest on his behalf. If that is the issue, then perhaps couples therapy may be the solution or the inevitable going separate ways. It's been 6 years so I'm willing to bet some of the spark and spontaneity has been lost in the bedroom. If you can remember what it was like while you were dating, try to bring him back to that spot.
Good Luck!
October 21, 2009 - 6:17amThis Comment
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