My bf has ED and won't touch me or engage in anything, we have been together for 6 months and at first we were more intimate and then it faded to once a month, I waited 2 months, I am the one that engages, kisses and cuddles, I don't get much reciprocation and when I say I want to be touched because it makes me feel unwanted he says he's insecure or just doesn't even think about it or wait... he is getting a surgery, a pump that will make everything all of a sudden fine but if there is no intimacy it's very hard to deal with. I am sensitive to him and how he's feeling and I've told him I don't care I just want to be close to him but he won't do anything, I'm in my 30's and feel like an old couple that don't have sex anymore but just love each other. It's very hard on my head and heart, messes with my self esteem or makes me wonder if he wants me at all.
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My bf has ED and won't touch me or engage in anything, we have been together for 6 months and at first we were more intimate and then it faded to once a month, I waited 2 months, I am the one that engages, kisses and cuddles, I don't get much reciprocation and when I say I want to be touched because it makes me feel unwanted he says he's insecure or just doesn't even think about it or wait... he is getting a surgery, a pump that will make everything all of a sudden fine but if there is no intimacy it's very hard to deal with. I am sensitive to him and how he's feeling and I've told him I don't care I just want to be close to him but he won't do anything, I'm in my 30's and feel like an old couple that don't have sex anymore but just love each other. It's very hard on my head and heart, messes with my self esteem or makes me wonder if he wants me at all.
September 23, 2017 - 2:09amThis Comment
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