What did u guys do to solve your problem?
Me n my bf have been dating for 2 years now im 20 (almost 21) and his 21. Weve been loving together for about 1 1/2 of our relationship. Little about us. We grow up around eachother n weve known eachother sense 6th grade but we didnt have very good friends nor family so for a while there it was just us against the world but we moved into our first apartment together and its almost been a year. So about 8-9 months ago he stoped wanting to have sex, makeout, harldy holds hands/hugs, n when im naked he hardly looks at me... He said if i was up to him we'd have sex once a month (sex is a huge stress reliever for me) so i cant do once a month. I would offer FINISH blow jobs n his excuse of not wanting to just lay there n enjoy was that hes to tired. But hes ALWAYS to tired thats his excuse everytime not joke EVERYTIME. It could be 10 am 1pm 5 pm or 9pm n he still to tired. Last night was my last strew i need help. The entire day he was like we're gonna bone oh i cant wait n he basically dirty talked with me tell bed time n when it came down to it he wouldnt make the first move (i always make the first moved) im thinking maybe he lost his touch but how?? Knowing his past hes use to be a player. Anyhow he was like you wanna have morning sex i know its your favorite so i was liek sure i guess not like im super in the mood now buuuuutttt ssuurreeee. So he sets an alarm for 7am n 7am come around n he turns his alarm off n rolls over n goes right back to sleep but for me i have a really hard time going back to sleep n now its 8 n hes past out n im hide awake this is not the first time..... I gave up on even asking to have sex i javemt tried for sex in over 2 months n he hasnt even notice n of he has hes probably garteful n doesnt want to say anything to ruin it.... Im really insurer about my body n i have been for many years n this is just putting gas on it and watching it burn..... What do i do ive try beening naked toys sexy outfits blow jobs ingoring sex n still nothing.... I caught his watching porn (ALOT) even on my birthday........ (Ouch) ....... But he doesnt really watch he looks at naked pictures of girls tell hes about to cum n then thats when he watchs a video..... Why does he need virtual girls n not the naked one right here..... This is really starting to hurt... At first is was annoying n now its really hurting me..... N i will not break up with him over sex.... Sex is a huge plus but its just knowing he use to or still does not sure with the new incognito thing..... But he used other girls bodys to get off n i havent caught him doing it recently but like i said im sure hes using the incognito so he doesnt get caught... Im out of ideas m i forever gonna be unsatisfied
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What did u guys do to solve your problem?
January 23, 2018 - 9:08amMe n my bf have been dating for 2 years now im 20 (almost 21) and his 21. Weve been loving together for about 1 1/2 of our relationship. Little about us. We grow up around eachother n weve known eachother sense 6th grade but we didnt have very good friends nor family so for a while there it was just us against the world but we moved into our first apartment together and its almost been a year. So about 8-9 months ago he stoped wanting to have sex, makeout, harldy holds hands/hugs, n when im naked he hardly looks at me... He said if i was up to him we'd have sex once a month (sex is a huge stress reliever for me) so i cant do once a month. I would offer FINISH blow jobs n his excuse of not wanting to just lay there n enjoy was that hes to tired. But hes ALWAYS to tired thats his excuse everytime not joke EVERYTIME. It could be 10 am 1pm 5 pm or 9pm n he still to tired. Last night was my last strew i need help. The entire day he was like we're gonna bone oh i cant wait n he basically dirty talked with me tell bed time n when it came down to it he wouldnt make the first move (i always make the first moved) im thinking maybe he lost his touch but how?? Knowing his past hes use to be a player. Anyhow he was like you wanna have morning sex i know its your favorite so i was liek sure i guess not like im super in the mood now buuuuutttt ssuurreeee. So he sets an alarm for 7am n 7am come around n he turns his alarm off n rolls over n goes right back to sleep but for me i have a really hard time going back to sleep n now its 8 n hes past out n im hide awake this is not the first time..... I gave up on even asking to have sex i javemt tried for sex in over 2 months n he hasnt even notice n of he has hes probably garteful n doesnt want to say anything to ruin it.... Im really insurer about my body n i have been for many years n this is just putting gas on it and watching it burn..... What do i do ive try beening naked toys sexy outfits blow jobs ingoring sex n still nothing.... I caught his watching porn (ALOT) even on my birthday........ (Ouch) ....... But he doesnt really watch he looks at naked pictures of girls tell hes about to cum n then thats when he watchs a video..... Why does he need virtual girls n not the naked one right here..... This is really starting to hurt... At first is was annoying n now its really hurting me..... N i will not break up with him over sex.... Sex is a huge plus but its just knowing he use to or still does not sure with the new incognito thing..... But he used other girls bodys to get off n i havent caught him doing it recently but like i said im sure hes using the incognito so he doesnt get caught... Im out of ideas m i forever gonna be unsatisfied
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