Sure, Anon, it's possible that he's stressed out about something. But that stress is something that a real partner would share with you.
To me, from what you say, it sounds like there is another person he may be interested in. Of course I don't know either of you and these are just my thoughts from what you've written. But he's treating you badly, he won't be intimate, and he is dressing nicely for someone at work and texting women from work late into the night. You say he tells you about them, but do you trust him to tell you the truth after how he treats you?
He knows that there are things that are wrong with the relationship. Don't let him tell you that.
I am so very very happy you have your biological mom to help you sort through this. Trust her -- she has only your best interests at heart. The questions she told you to ask were pretty important. Did you get back to her with his inability to answer the questions? What does she say?
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Sure, Anon, it's possible that he's stressed out about something. But that stress is something that a real partner would share with you.
To me, from what you say, it sounds like there is another person he may be interested in. Of course I don't know either of you and these are just my thoughts from what you've written. But he's treating you badly, he won't be intimate, and he is dressing nicely for someone at work and texting women from work late into the night. You say he tells you about them, but do you trust him to tell you the truth after how he treats you?
He knows that there are things that are wrong with the relationship. Don't let him tell you that.
I am so very very happy you have your biological mom to help you sort through this. Trust her -- she has only your best interests at heart. The questions she told you to ask were pretty important. Did you get back to her with his inability to answer the questions? What does she say?
November 27, 2009 - 8:55amThis Comment
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