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Hi, Bexiboo,

I'm not sure what to tell you here, Bexiboo.

The two of you have some serious problems right now. Yes, some may be your doing, but certainly not all. Both of you have responsibility here, and unless you both want to fix the problems, they just aren't going to get fixed.

You need to put some things in your life that do not involve him, Bexiboo. Your life revolves around him too much, and his does not revolve around you. You need to get a job, or take a class, or volunteer somewhere, and you need to do it for YOU. If he objects, too bad. You can go to a church, a library or a coffeeshop. Before you got involved with him, what did you want to do and be in your life?

Ask your mum for advice on how to get involved in some activity outside of your home. If you don't have a car, is there public transportation?

You need to be stronger here, and realize that there's nothing wrong with balance. He needs to devote a little more time to the relationship if he wants it to work. You both are going to have to take a couple of steps back and remember why you got involved in the first place -- what was it about each other that you loved? Is that there still?

December 4, 2009 - 8:36am

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