I am dealing with the same thing and I'm no kid. I was in a long term marriage (34 years) with a normal great guy who passed away 5 years ago and now am with a man 12 years younger. He doesn't work, do anything around the house or in the bedroom. He is on his way out the door as I deserve better and so does everyone else with this type of boyfriend/husband. I don't need fixing. Can't change him but I can exchange him!